The issues a lot of people are having with this rape scene is two fold: the first is that it happened to the innocent Sansa and the second is that the rape itself is left largely to your imagination based on sounds and Theon's tears. There have been many worse, more degrading sex/rape scenes in this show (think Joeffrey and the whores he makes violate each other) if you want really disturbing. This season is building to be fascinatingly disturbing with three exceptional actors. Don't like the power of being left feeling uncomfortable? You may want to find a new Sunday night show.