Let me ask this what happens when u assume? Your really only making an ass outta yourself instead of "me the obese women". No person knows another's journey unless they have walked in their shoes, even then know one journey is the same. There is nothing wrong w loving YOU no matter what size. People that talk crap are either miserable them selves OR need to look into there own back yard b4 they look onto others. Ive been an obese person my whole life. I don't have high blood pressure , cholesterol , or diabetes. I don't eat out a lot,i cook at home n portion control. I RARELY eat sweets. I go on walks,swim,play at the park exercise w my child. Hell i don't even have cable because I'm not home enough. All said n done i love me n most of all GOD loves me n thats all that matters.